When we dream something horrifying what happens? We wake up sweating like a horse and we drink some water and we get normal after some time. But, why did this happen to us? We were afraid in our dream, not in reality. Then why did we react, as if, we were afraid in reality? May be because while dreaming we considered that very dream as our world and that’s why everything that happened in the dream appeared real to us and we reacted to it as if, it’s all real.
OK now just leave that, we mistook the dream as a reality when we were least conscious, but, why are we doing similar thing when we are quiet awake? Yes, I am talking about our waking state. Why do we react to this World so seriously? What is the difference between life and dream? If someone scolds us uselessly, we get so sad and angry and our Blood pressure goes up, we feel upset and etc. We all know that we have to wake up one day when this dream of life will end, then why are we making ourselves so much attached to this mortal dream of life that will end one day within a glimpse of our eye. When we do something wrong, our conscience keeps on telling us that what we are doing is quiet wrong, then why do we go on the wrong path just because we want to be a more comfortable dreamer. Don’t you think its mere foolishness? Don’t you think that being sad for not getting something in a dream is foolishness? Don’t you think that loosing a beloved just in a dream and then crying for that is foolishness? Now, your reaction to these sentences must be that the very author is a foolish chap who thinks that life and dream are same.He doesn't knows anything about how to live in this world. Never mind, this is a normal feedback to my articles.
Why do we cry when we loose someone special? It's not only because we love them wholeheartedly, but its because we are too selfish and we just want that person to be with us because we feel too sad when he/she is not near. Why do we cry when someone closes his/her eyes forever? Same reason, selfishness, because we feel that we have become helpless and incomplete without that person. But why do we feel such things, again selfishness, because we made ourselves too dependent or attached to the person. But, if we are not attached to anyone then won’t we become a rude chap who never talks to anyone? So, the answer to this is a big No. Rather we’ll become too friendly, confident, etc. etc. and we’ll know exactly what to speak and where to speak. There will be no confusions in our thoughts and emotions. Am I speaking uselessly as these things are not possible practically? May be..but what’s in trying them out? Now-a-days we try so many idiotic things then what’s in trying something that may fill our lives with happiness and that would eradicate the word ‘sad’ from the dictionary of our life.
But, before starting I would say something. We know that if we fill a glass with water up to the brim and then we try to pour more water into it, nothing will enter the glass. Similarly if we keep on thinking that we know everything and we are always right then even if God comes to us and tells us that we are wrong and we should change ourselves, we’ll somehow prove the God wrong because of our Ego which is also an ironical thing. How can we feel so egoistic about ourselves when God, the supreme power is not at all egoistic?
Ok so let’s start. Firstly, we'll have to set it in our minds that whenever we feel sad we ourselves are responsible for it, and not anybody else. Taking an example of our parents who love us more than anything else in this world, but sometimes they scold us for no reason may be because they are disturbed due to some other thing. But, since we expected that they won’t scold us so we feel sad not because they scolded us but because of our expectations which were marred. Things happen in this world and they’ll keep on happening, we can't stop them from happening, but the only thing that we can do is that we can change the way of looking at the world, we cant change others but yes we can change our own mindsets.
What’s the difference between the positive and the negative person? Suppose a rich girl goes to her friend’s place to show her a diamond necklace that she had bought recently and somehow she looses her precious necklace unknowingly. So, there may be many responses to it. She may say that, "I lost my necklace due to my carelessness and I should be careful next time." Or she may blame that, "May be, my friend stole it." Or if she is superstitious she may say that, "Maybe my friend was jealous so I lost it". Now the first response is positive and rest all are negative because in first response the girl seems quite unselfish and it seems that for her emotions mean more than the material things that’s why she is not suspecting her friend. But in other views she seems quite negative. And she’ll only feel sad if she’ll think negatively i.e. if she’ll be selfish.
Thus, being sad, angry, tensed up, hating someone are not the things for which we are living. Just think upon it, that we don’t get angry or sad but we make ourselves the same just because of are way of thinking. No one in the world likes a sad face. Everyone wants to see a happy and smiling face. Everyone likes positive things so why not just dump our ego and our wrong way of thinking and just live it up!! With joy and happiness and accept the world as it is.Because it’s only a short dream where we are too conscious and our sorrows and happiness just depends upon our way of thinking. Never take life too seriously as no one gets out alive anyhow! Always be ready to change yourself according to the situations because situations are not in your hands and Darwin has already given the theory of the survival of the fittest. One who can bare all the emotional, mental and physical challenges of life with a pleasant smile on the face will be winner. Only He/She would treat life and dream in similar way and live all the difficulties of life with a smiling face.
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